Do You Have a Grey Personality?

You’re either one side or another, this or that, black or white. At least this is what I’m told. Except that my mind is the most indecisive machine you may ever encounter when it comes to choosing how my personality will be. So let me ask you, do you have a grey personality?

Here is a list of questions you may be able to answer easily: 

Are you sensitive or not?

Are you outgoing or introverted?

Are you a people person?

Are you a listener or a talker?

Are you easily guilt ridden?

Are you optimistic?

Did you answer all of those? Okay now here is how a grey personality would answer it.

Are you sensitive or not? Yes, most of the time, unless you count the people I don’t care for because they don’t effect me. Unless they’re really mean. I mean the people close to me can say something that I can brush off… sometimes, I think.

Are you outgoing or introverted? Oh I’m outgoing because I like people. Wait, actually, scratch that because some days I don’t want to see any human beings in my sight. When I do want to see people I’m outgoing but most days I don’t really want to see people… so… you decide.

Are you a people person? I would say I’m very good with people. Sometimes, they confuse me and I just kind of sit there. Mostly, I am really good with conversations and what not but sometimes people are just weird and can’t reciprocate. I have a love hate relationship with people.

Are you a listener or a talker? I am a solid listener. I am really good at the “mhm” and head nod thing. Then again, I love to get my two cents in a conversation and could go on for hours if its the right people. In those situations, I could do all the talking. Maybe it’s mood based?

Are you easily guilt ridden? You caught me. I feel so guilty for really simple things. I can feel guilty over someone saying I shouldn’t feel guilty. Unless they’re just a bunch of jerks that are trying to make me feel guilty. Then screw them I refuse to cave in to that kind of emotional abuse. Then I feel bad for not feeling guilty. Sometimes… crap.

Are you optimistic? I am an optimistic pessimist. Something wonderful will happen to me and I will know the world is paying me back for my wonderful nature and as soon as something weird or bad happens, I will think the world is out to get me. It’s both, really. I want to see the best in situations, but I can’t expect too much or I’ll get crushed.

 So what do you think? Do you have a grey personality? I struggle with these questions on a daily basis and hope to touch those who share my grey tendencies.

Until tomorrow lovelies,

Anna Marie