Hush, I tell my heart, you don’t always know what’s best for you.
Quiet, my heart challenges, you’re overthinking this.
It’s like I can feel these two separate entities inside of me whenever a crucial decision arises.
For instance, when you get a funny feeling about someone or being somewhere.
Our head often sees what’s happening far before our hearts ever sense we might be in danger. When we finally realize our thoughts are not just paranoia we cautiously whisper our fears to our beating chests. With every beat, our hearts reassure us that people are good, incapable of causing pain and besides, can’t you just enjoy happiness for once?
They say we’re ignoring our gut instinct but in reality, we just have too much hope. We are too excited for things to go as we dream and push away the nagging discouragements our brain is spewing in the background. We just want our heart to find happiness because we know how much it deserves to.
If you’ve ever been stuck, it’s hard to choose between what you think is right and what you feel is right. I wish I could help you understand which is better but the truth is there is never going to be one that conquers all.
There is this battle that happens within us and that’s when we know the decision we are making is life-changing. When your heart and your head clash so ferociously you can’t sleep, that’s when you know you’ve come to a fork that has two separate futures.
And if you follow your heart? I can promise you that you will feel good. I can’t promise for how long, but whenever you choose your heart you always feel good for at least a little while.
Is it smart to choose your heart and surrender your brain? It depends really.
Is it smart to choose your brain and ignore those feelings you have? I just don’t know.
But if you follow your brain? You can talk yourself into reason and sometimes that means talking your heart into reason as well. You can calm the terror you may feel in your chest by explaining why something needs to change.
In our hearts, we can almost always know if something is a good idea if it just feels right.
Often, we can also argue our minds to the point where we convince ourselves that it is right.
So in the end, we never know if we made the “right” decision or chose the right organ to follow. We just move forward because we realize that is what we decided to do. We continue on living and will not know if that organ was the more reasonable one until one of them start questioning every choice you’ve ever made again.
When that time comes, maybe wave a white flag and find a way to follow both. 😉
Until Next Time,