Don’t lose your sense of adventure.
Open up to strangers and invite love into your heart.
Sit on the bus and ask how the person to your left is doing.
It’s not creepy, it’s how we used to meet people.
Stand in line at a coffee shop and tell that girl who dressed up that she looks lovely.
She won’t give you a weird look, she’ll smile.
Pick up a book and read your favorite quote to someone you want to connect with.
Your favorite words will tell them so much more than your Facebook account.
Smile with your eyes and dress up so you can say damn, I look GOOD.
Stop racing for a goal and breathe in the moment you’re living.
Why are we so scared to live in a world where no matter what, you’re going to get hurt?
It’s true isn’t it?
No matter how guarded you are, how careful you are, how safe you live your life- you’re bound to get hurt at some point down the road.
Tripping on the side walk.
Criticized by your boss.
Rejected by your crush.
Hurt is going to happen.
So why do we fear it so much?
It’s a huge part of us.
A part of living, growing stronger and pushing forward.
I’ve seen people cringe from pain so much that they’ve become immune to being alive.
They hide themselves in a shell so tough that they can’t even begin to understand how someone could open it.
And it only grows thicker.
The part of them that could really live gets hidden as they go through the motions- waiting for anything to break through that shell.
Well it’s not up to a force of nature.
It’s up to you.
It’s up to you to face your fear and live in a world where you embrace rejection and let it push you.
By the thousandth time, you’ll be a professional.
By the thousandth no, you’ll hear “there’s a different plan”.
Don’t be scared to live.
Embrace the fear and do it anyways because we’re all a little insane to hope that just enough courage will earn us the happiness we all deserve.
Until next time,