Don’t lose your sense of adventure.
Open up to strangers and invite love into your heart.
Sit on the bus and ask how the person to your left is doing.
It’s not creepy, it’s how we used to meet people.
Stand in line at a coffee shop and tell that girl who dressed up that she looks lovely.
She won’t give you a weird look, she’ll smile.
Pick up a book and read your favorite quote to someone you want to connect with.
Your favorite words will tell them so much more than your Facebook account.
Smile with your eyes and dress up so you can say damn, I look GOOD.
Stop racing for a goal and breathe in the moment you’re living.
Why are we so scared to live in a world where no matter what, you’re going to get hurt?
It’s true isn’t it?
No matter how guarded you are, how careful you are, how safe you live your life- you’re bound to get hurt at some point down the road.
Tripping on the side walk.
Criticized by your boss.
Rejected by your crush.
Hurt is going to happen.
So why do we fear it so much?
It’s a huge part of us.
A part of living, growing stronger and pushing forward.
I’ve seen people cringe from pain so much that they’ve become immune to being alive.
They hide themselves in a shell so tough that they can’t even begin to understand how someone could open it.
And it only grows thicker.
The part of them that could really live gets hidden as they go through the motions- waiting for anything to break through that shell.
Well it’s not up to a force of nature.
It’s up to you.
It’s up to you to face your fear and live in a world where you embrace rejection and let it push you.
By the thousandth time, you’ll be a professional.
By the thousandth no, you’ll hear “there’s a different plan”.
Don’t be scared to live.
Embrace the fear and do it anyways because we’re all a little insane to hope that just enough courage will earn us the happiness we all deserve.
Until next time,
It’s true, us travelers are wired differently.
We don’t discover our souls, we create them. So once you’ve met someone who has decided to create a soul full of adventure and wander, prepare yourself for how they think and where their passions lie.
We crave change. I’m not talking about moving every few months or trips to Europe every single year. The change of scenery we need is more about exploring something new. We want our eyes to be awakened by new places and that doesn’t have to cost a fortune.
I can’t tell you how much small trips mean to us wanderers. Whether it’s getting coffee in the next town over or exploring a new park, we crave a change that will refresh our inspiration.
We seek adventure. We need to have fun in a way that is new to us. An adventure can be as small as going to a new grocery store or searching for a new solitary. Walking new paths or searching for the oldest antique shop around, we just crave an adrenaline rush.
We want knowledge outside of our city limits. What else is out there? As soon as we’ve left, we realize how much we HAVEN’T seen yet. We start planning and plotting for new trips that will teach us more about the world than a text book every could.
Daydreaming is guaranteed to be filled with exotic locations and foods that we don’t even know exist yet.
We love solo adventures that help us create ourselves but we also love sharing our wanderings with loved ones. If you see the most incredible flower field hidden in a mountain valley, happiness consumes you. If someone is with you, you look right at them and smile from ear to ear because it just became a shared memory. You are both witnesses to a beauty that can never be translated into words.
Come on my fellow wanderers. What else makes our souls all about travel?
As my last day here comes to a close, I can’t believe a month has flown by so quickly.
I met most of my extended family from Germany for the first time. I tried a horse patty. I ordered food in German without any help. I made friends whose first language isn’t my own.
I truly lived here for one month.
I can’t explain the powerful vibes that come from a town that your ancestors have grown up in. I brushed dead leaves from the grave of my great Oma who’s name I now carry. I walked the same streets she did and hung out with the children of my dad’s German best friend.
These buildings hold memories that belong to generations of those who share the same blood. The sense of family and love that I get when I talk to the people who live here is unlike any place I have ever been before.
As a stranger, it did not take me long to feel like I completely belong in this small town. Whoever said Germans aren’t friendly did not come to this little village.
I learned the coolest expressions and figured out that Germans cannot say the word ‘squirrel’. I laughed so hard I thought I was going to collapse on the pavement.
Needless to say the people I met here and the memories I made will stay in my heart forever.
This trip has been the most incredible first journey in this country. I am so blessed to have had this chance to make so many memories and I can’t wait to come back for more.
Until next time,